How it works

You register for Inviteable Me, and I’ll send you the first experiment.

There are three in total. Each one is designed to teach me something different:

You’ll get clear instructions each time. Some of the experiments may nudge you a little outside your comfort zone. That’s intentional. I’m not trying to get polished answers. I’m trying to get useful evidence.

Each experiment comes with a link for you to send me your response.

Spoiler: you don’t write it.

You tell me.

In your actual voice.

By the time you’ve done the experiments, you’ll start to understand why that matters.

Once you’ve completed all three, I go through everything you’ve shared and look at the whole picture.

A personalized Inviteable Me Field Guide.

Not one “perfect” answer to memorize. A handful of ways to talk about what you do, shaped by what you think, what other people actually see, and the future you want to create.

You’ll leave with language to try in real conversations, and a better sense of what happens when you use it.

One of the experiments asks you to talk to a few people who have actually experienced you at work.

If you’re not willing to do that, this probably isn’t the right moment to start.

That’s the one thing I think was missing. Not a whole FAQ dumped onto this page, just the one commitment that materially changes whether someone should begin.